Okay seriously… writing about your feelings and thoughts about your relationship in a private journal without sharing them with “Ed” is one thing. Writing about them in a public forum without discussing them with him first could cause some major issues. Who wouldn’t be frustrated if they read something about their relationship and saw people from who knows where commenting on it before you even knew what was going on. Reminds me of one of my old interns who came to work one day and sat at his desk for about 10 minutes then stood up and left, never returning. Later that day he called and told me that he wouldn’t be to work for a few days as he had found out, on his wife’s blog, that they were apparently swingers. The only problem was she was the only one swinging and he knew nothing about it. I would remember to respect the one you love enough to communicate with each other first and then if you want to write about it, find an appropriate way to do it. I know you already do so go on being yourself!